Support vs. Submission - Don't get it twisted!
Damn, it's been a minute and then some! I've got a lot to get off my chest so bear with me as I offload my mind and heart onto this proverbial page. Here goes...
I just got through reading yet another RIDICULOUS article about how women need to be submissive to their husbands and how we should essentially be door mats in order to maintain the fragile "manhood" of the male species. And, as per usual, I found myself not feeling at all enlightened but instead being left with the most intense feeling of anger and disdain for the utterly deplorable bullshit that I had just spent three whole minutes of my life reading... Minutes that I will, sadly, never be able to gain back.
But alas dear world, what exactly would you like from me as a female? Please do clarify because, once again, I am left in a state of perpetual confusion! On one side we have guys talking about women being "boss" and self-sufficient all while Ne-Yo sings his heart out about loving a certain Miss Independent. Then on the other hand are the Bible bashers, jumping around, rosaries in hand, proclaiming that man is the "head of the house" (or some other poo I shall roll my eyes at) and how women have turned men into what they are today.
Guys, what the actual fuck?! So I should work my ass off (while, obviously, maintaining a Kardashian-esqe booty), come home, cook for my man while he probably sits staring at his phone the entire time and then what? Be completely content with the meaningful nature of my otherwise meaningless existence?
So I should wait on a dude, preferably on my knees with mouth open wide, while he does his thing, forgets about me for an hour or five and then, when he finally decides to magically appear with his proverbial tail between his legs and a sorry on his lips, I am just supposed to submit and give him sex because hey, what is a man if not for the dangly piece of skin between his legs just waiting to be serviced?
You know what, FUCK. THAT. SHIT.
Men, if you want a submissive woman, be a fucking dominant man! And by that I don't mean throw your weight around, how's about actually doing some shit?! Pay some bills, take your girl on a shopping trip, change a lightbulb without being asked, cook a meal, wash the dishes, have a conversation without staring at your phone, put the TV off and pay attention, spend some time with your damn kids, be a fucking man!
And for the sake of world peace, stop expecting everything and an orgasm from a woman and then blame her when shit goes wrong.
We live in a world of contradictions. Stop mixing up your damn expectations and decide what the hell it is that you want. Whether or not a woman can be both supportive and submissive, I don't know but don't go around asking for effort when you cannot provide the same.
That is all.
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