Caramel Contemplation

So today started out as a pretty sucky day... My alarm didn't go off, I got to work late, I miss my friends and I'm just not in an over-the-top mood. As I was taking my daily stroll to work with my earphones on, Disrespectful by Trey Songz started playing. I would just like to add that ever since the first listen I had to Trigga's new album, this was one of the songs that I absolutely detested- IMMEDIATELY! Ain't nobody got time for cheaters! But nonetheless, it got me thinking and man, did this track affect my emotions!

I know I might get a bit of a backlash for this post but truthfully speaking, I can only write from my own experience and my experience isn't all that rosy so bear with me. Why should side guys and side chicks exist though?! I don't know how many times I have been approached by a guy who seems genuinely cool, only to find out that he either has a girlfriend or has lied about being single (go figure!). Now I could chalk it up to naivety or me just wanting to see the good in people but can someone please explain to me why vagina is so good that you would go out of your way to either try and sell me dreams or disrespect the woman you claim to love so much all just so you can get some. I mean really guys, all that effort just to hit?! Does your significant other really mean that little?! And yes, I know someone is probably gonna come at me with some lame justification of how the "560" doesn't do what the side chick does or how majority of animals are not monogamous but when it all comes down to it is all the drama and hurt really worth it? Can't we all just be happy with what we have and stop chasing what we don't? 

Let's stop being led by our genitalia and stop selling dreams. And for goodness sake, can people please stop trynna make me a side chick!