I know that this post is a bit late but I had some drama to deal with yesterday. Please bear with me. This edition of Sexy Saturday is about fantasy lingerie, so enjoy and don't be afraid to let your playful side come out!
The Fun In Fantasy
This may seem a little bit silly but when you think back on your childhood, do you remember what it felt like when you dressed up in a costume? It may seem like ages ago but to most of us, we felt as though we were a completely different person. You truly believed that you were the character wearing the costume and you had an excuse to act in ways that weren't the norm to you. This is exactly what fantasy lingerie is all about.
At first fantasy lingerie may make you feel a bit self-conscious. Just give it time and you and your partner will be enjoying the benefits of role playing!
The first thing that you need to do is introduce the concept through conversation. This can be done by bringing up the topic while you two are in a comfortable position together. If you are feeling a bit shy, bring it up during a movie and comment about the costumes that everyone is wearing. This way you can find out what your partner prefers and take it from there.
Is your man turned on by a French maid with a sexy accent? Does he like the look of a sexy pirate? Does he like his woman to be dominating while wearing a lace-up corset or does he prefer a powerful figure in a business suit and sexy underwear underneath?
What about you? Do you prefer a man in uniform such as a fire fighter or sailor? Or do you like the rugged look of a construction worker? A handy man maybe? The options are endless!
Now that you have introduced the idea of fantasy lingerie into the bedroom, what look are you thinking of going for? Ideas for sexy costumes can go as far as your imagination may take you. Another thing you need to know is that you don't need to spend a lot of money on an outfit. On the contrary, you can actually start in your own closet. Want to transform into a sexy school girl? All you need is a white shirt, a sexy skirt, some heels and pigtails and you should be good to go!
If you need a few ideas on costumes to try, here are the most popular options:
- French maid: Turn housework into playtime with this classic! You may mess up the house in the process but it will be worth it in the end.
- Naughty nurse: Playing doctor will have you both feeling good again! ;-)
- School girl: Men just love these uniforms! Make him feel as though he's back in high school with this one!
- Police woman: You can never go wrong with a little bit of cops and robbers!
- Race car driver: Rev his engine with this sexy number!
- Bunny suit: Give him a real life bunny to play with. He'll never think of buying a Playboy magazine again!
A change of pace is always good in a relationship, especially if it's long-term. Although something different can be great, the benefits can only be felt if both partners are willing. Before trying anything new, always communicate openly with your partner in order to avoid any unwanted surprises. Just remember, without good communication, your fantasy could turn into a disaster!
Happy playing! Enjoy!
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